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articleMay 2026 · 4 min read

Gen Z is boldly going where companies can't

If you've followed my homeless in the workplace story, you know that experience is the why behind what I do.

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articleApr 2026 · 6 min read

the becoming of humanity and AI

In 2024, I set a 2025 goal to do a TED Talk. I didn't do a TED Talk, but I wrote it.

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articleJul 2025 · 3 min read

the high-performing workplace bully

The high-performing bully is a company's catch-22 and often one of the most challenging workplace dynamics to navigate.

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articleMar 2025 · 2 min read

the one thing that sets great company cultures apart

Over the past decade, I've worked with over 75+ workplace cultures in different capacities, Advisor, Fractional HR, VP of People, Culture Strategist, Culture...

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articleDec 2024 · 3 min read

top workplace culture shifts to focus on in 2025

The workplace is evolving faster than ever, becoming more multigenerational, multidimensional, and increasingly dynamic.

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articleNov 2024 · 5 min read

the hard truth about why DEI didn't work

DEI was fueled, and, for some, born, from the events of 2020.

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articleOct 2023 · 2 min read

10 reasons you should look for a job and interview while you have a job

Being rejected feels better when you've already been accepted.

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articleJan 2023 · 3 min read

these are the top 3 new years resolutions. this is how to avoid failing at them

For the past decade, I've transitioned from making New Years' Resolutions (NYR) and focused more on vision boards, manifestation techniques, and setting...

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articleSep 2022 · 4 min read

the one thing that happens to employees before they quit

Regardless if someone gives notice or quits on the spot, one thing universally happens to employees before they quit.

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articleJul 2022 · 5 min read

I retired from HR at 35. here's what I learned

I never went to school or was formally trained to be in HR.

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articleDec 2021 · 6 min read

top 5 reasons DEI practitioners are burnt out

Welcome back to the second part of this three-part DEI series. If this is your first time in this article series, welcome.

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articleDec 2021 · 4 min read

6 step to do after you've been laid off (or quit your job)

I write this from a space of having been laid off and from quitting a job.

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articleOct 2021 · 3 min read

breaking down D.E.I

This will be a three-part article series around DEI.

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articleSep 2021 · 3 min read

I AM not marginalized

I was once asked if I am marginalized, to which I replied:

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articleJul 2021 · 3 min read

why being an “anti-racist” company won’t end racism

When I heard companies committing to being anti-racist organizations, I know things would get interesting.

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articleJun 2021 · 4 min read

so, how should you celebrate Juneteenth?

If this is the first or second time you are officially celebrating Juneteenth, don't feel bad. You came to the right place.

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articleMar 2021 · 5 min read

be less white

If you've spent some time with me or heard my thoughts on words, you've heard the phrase, high-vibe. High-vibe simply means using the better parts of our humanity.

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articleJul 2020 · 3 min read

10 solutions to the 10 signs that your company isn't serious about I&D

Solution: Create a budget to reflect intent, integrity, and accountability.

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articleJun 2020 · 4 min read

dear white CEO

It’s okay not to make a forward-facing statement about what is going on in the world. You can keep it internal.

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articleFeb 2020 · 3 min read

I'm torn about Black history month

Before I get into it, here is a quick visual of the history of how Black History Month came to be:

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articleFeb 2020 · 2 min read

top 7 inspiring movies for jobseekers

Looking for a job can be a discouraging process.

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articleNov 2019 · 2 min read

in case of failure do this

Failure is inevitable. A part of life. Everyone fails.

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articleJun 2019 · 2 min read

what true inclusion looks like

There is an unspoken rule in the workplace: don’t discuss religion or politics.

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articleMay 2019 · 2 min read

“i’m not the token black person.”

I was once called the token black person. At that moment, I wasn’t sure how to respond, other than, “I’m not the token black person”.

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articleFeb 2018 · 3 min read

3 common reasons startup cultures fail

A while back I wrote an article called Signs of a Toxic Culture (and when to leave).

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articleJun 2017 · 2 min read

if they don't let me go, I'll quit!

I was having a conversation with an employee at a place I go to regularly. We started talking about the week and what we were planning on doing with our weekend.

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articleMay 2017 · 2 min read

5 legit facts on how to fire the right way

For the record, I don’t watch the news or follow politics. We cut out cable in our home a couple of years back, and it’s been the best things ever.

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articleMay 2017 · 2 min read

5 effortless manners that will make you more likable in the workplace

I can't begin to tell you how many employee conflicts have festered because of the lack of manners.

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articleApr 2017 · 2 min read

5 culture sins to avoid when your employee quits

Nothing is more important to a culture than the treatment of employees on their way in and out.

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articleMar 2017 · 3 min read

5 effortless ways to remove bias from the hiring process

These tips are from a recent article called We're Hiring...but only those who look like us.

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articleMar 2017 · 6 min read

we're hiring...but only those who look like us

When I asked the manager why she did this, she said, “I felt they were just picking the white candidate because it was what they were more comfortable with and...

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articleJan 2017 · 2 min read

how your company culture is like a marriage

Most people spend more time working on the wedding (perks), than the actual marriage (culture).

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articleJan 2017 · 2 min read

why your job title doesn't matter

No one regardless of their job title should feel they have the right to treat or speak to an employee anyway they feel.

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articleJan 2017 · 3 min read

3 critical steps that every company should be doing right now

What is going on right now is all over the news, social media and in the papers. It is almost impossible to avoid hearing and talking about what is happening.

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articleDec 2016 · 5 min read

company culture is like a garden (explained beautifully)

The first time I took up gardening I failed miserably. Only 10% of my crops harvested and only a few of them were edible.

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articleDec 2016 · 5 min read

6 essential questions job seekers forget to ask (plus bonus tips)

Have you ever been so excited about a job, you nail the interview, get a job offer, and forget to ask about the company's health benefits, vacation policy, or...

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articleNov 2016 · 4 min read

why good employees stay in bad environments

Why do good employees stay in bad environments? Do they stay because of the money? Is it fear, or something else?

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articleOct 2016 · 4 min read

signs of a toxic culture (and when to leave)

We have all seen these signs, and some of us have left companies because of them.

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articleJun 2016 · 4 min read

do you know who you hired?

What if you had an Oprah, Richard Branson, Steve Jobs or Martin Luther King Jr, working at your company. How would you treat them?

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articleMay 2016 · 3 min read

3 easy hacks to improve your startup’s culture

Candidates today are looking for the perfect job and the right company.

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articleMay 2016 · 2 min read

why we don't like mondays

I was hanging out with a little kid the other day and we started to talk about Mondays. This is how the conversation went.

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articleMay 2016 · 2 min read

7 ways to help you succeed at anything

I was with my mother-in-law the other night and after many years of working for someone else, she has decided to start a non-profit.

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guideJan 2023 · 7 min read

the complete guide to hiring your first culture consultant

What a culture consultant does, when to bring one in, the questions to ask, and how to get started.

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guideFeb 2023 · 6 min read

over 50 company culture questions to ask during a job interview

The culture questions to ask before you say yes, from leadership and pay to layoffs and parental leave.

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template5 min

free resume + cover letter templates

Sixteen free resume templates and a cover letter template for your job search.

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assessment15 min

leadership alignment diagnostic

16 questions for founders and leadership teams. Compare answers to see where you're truly aligned.

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assessment5 min

culture health check

The broad starting point: 25 questions, 5 minutes, personalized results.

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book

how to keep your company culture from going to sh!t

A free signed copy, mailed to you in 2027. Plus the companion workbook.

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nuggets

culture nuggets archive

Every monthly issue, in one place.

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the bookshelf

for when you want to go deeper.

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Hiring with Humanity Playbook

66 pages on hiring people like people.

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Humanity at Work Playbook

33 pages on putting the Humanity Philosophy to work.

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culture nuggets

a monthly note worth opening.

A few useful ideas about work, a good read, a good eat, a little woo-woo. Once a month, no spam.